Our Adoption Video

Meagan and I were interviewed about our adoption journey for our church.



When they showed this video in church, we were seeing Elijah for the very first time...

Elijah update... we are gaining weight a few ounces at a time...

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Bittersweet Return

Any other trip I have taken out of town has been one where I look forward to the return home. This time, every mile we traveled brought us one mile closer to our house, and one mile further from our hearts.

If you are catching up, Meagan and I got the chance to meet Eli, our future adopted son. There are still many things that need to fall into place for this to happen, but we are closer than we have ever been. And as I sat today with him laying on my chest, looking at his tiny hands and listening to him breathe, I realized that all will be well and it will all work out O.K.

On our trip home, though filled with conflicting emotions, there was one time we both laughed out loud. We called the hospital for an update and found out that Eli had his first poo! I cannot think of another time in my life when I would ever be excited about that, but it was the last thing we were waiting on to make sure everything was working correctly.

We have planned our next trip in a few weeks. It will be hard realizing we are separated from our son  by several hours, but such will be our life for however long he needs to stay in the NICU. Home during the week working, sleeping, getting the house and nursery ready, and then when we can driving up to visit, hold, talk to, touch, and encourage him. Hopefully sooner than later, that day will come when our hearts and home are together again, and Eli is safe and sound in a nursery a few feet, instead of a few hours away.

Please continue to pray. Pray that Eli will gain the weight and make the milestones he needs to make to come home quickly. Pray for the nurses and doctors who watch over our little one every day. Pray for us as we travel back and forth. Pray for our continued efforts to raise the last of the money we need, and for the upcoming legal proceedings that we must go through to finalize this adoption.

We are so thankful to all of you who have expressed your concerns, prayers, and encouragement over the phone, text, emails, twitter and facebook. Each message means so much. Thank you for joining us on this journey.

We will probably do most of our updates, and try to answer the questions we can here on this blog. We will post the link to each entry on facebook so check there daily to see what's going on. You can also get  updates to your email inbox by using the form in the right hand column of this blog site.

Russell and Meagan

Oh.. photos will come when I can put them up I promise.
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Our First Meeting

Just got out of our first meeting with Elijah. The nurse met us and was so good about explaining everything that was going on. There are many sensors, and feeds hooked up so we were a little intimidated at first, but felt reassured as she explained the function of each one, and why it had to be hooked in or taped on to our baby boy.

It took a while of just looking at him laying there to realize that this is becoming more and more real with each moment. At first he was lying on his stomach, so he was pretty still. Then the nurse turned him over and he got excited. He stretched out his arms, kicked his little legs and let out a few faint cries. In fact he set off his machine so much he woke up the baby next to him. I have a feeling he will be a fighter, and an instigator.

We were able to reach our hands in the incubator and touch him. He reached out and put his tiny fingers around my finger. Though tiny, by comparison to his hand they are very long. Meagan got to change his diaper and I got to put a crochet hat on his head. I asked Meagan if this could be the normal, she change him, I dress him, and I was assured that would not be the case.

We know that we have between 4 and 8 weeks till he will come home. The time between now and then will be spent traveling 5 and a half hours to see Elijah, getting a nursery ready for an infant, and work, school, church responsibilities.

Please continue to pray for us as we progress on this adoption journey. Long weeks are ahead but we know it will all be worth it when Eli comes home. 

Progress and Prayers

So many of you have been praying for us on our adoption journey.  For such a long time it has seemed like all we were doing was waiting, and waiting. We still wait, but with a possible light at the end of the tunnel. I cannot share any details with you at the time, but I wanted to let you know that we are progressing in our adoption process. 

What can you do? 

First of all you can keep praying. I know it's hard not knowing specifics but just pray for what we have asked from the beginning. Pray for birth moms, infants, and adoptive parents everywhere. We'll let you know when to pray more specifically for our situation.

Second we are still raising money for our adoption process. The Hopes Prayers and Lullaby CD is still on sale. If you haven't gotten one yet, or you know someone who needs one please order it soon. Go to www.indieheaven.com/artists/russellmartin. Someone also asked if we had a direct link to make a donation. If you are interested in that let me know and we will set something up through paypal or some other form.

Third be patient. There is so much up in the air, so much we do not know. We will let you know if anything progresses as soon as we can. And that may still be several months away. 

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